Geeky boys can be pretty loverly.
Just sayin' that it's a group you might want to consider.

Honestly? I think the 4 man plan isn't a bad idea really. I can actually understand the whole "one-at-a-time-please" feeling, but it can actually be a little damaging to start out that way. After a while of being single, men tend to build up that "I need to get laid!" energy, while women build up that "I want the love of my life" feeling and giving off either energy makes the opposite sex run in terror.

Feel free to develope a "friend" or two, but still date. You have to take the edge off so to speak, being too eager to jump into a relationship is just a reciepe for drama. Having more than one option around to go have fun with (doesn't have to be just sex) also allows you to really see what works better for you relationship wise, and not focus on trying to keep making the wrong connection better. Drawing all expectations onto just one person can be a bit...well overwhelming (for anyone). If you find your grounding to be thrown by multiple, maybe that's because your overexstending your balance in dating (I.E. trying to find balance through someone else). Stay centered and let the boys flutter around you till you find one that wants to land, and you want him to land too,

Relax, have fun, be honest put yourself out there and feel free to expand your own boundries.

Tribe isn't a bad place to meet people, but I have yet to meet anyone (local) through this tribe. Personally I find it a terrible way to get to know someone, but a great way to find someone you would like to get to know. I'm not sure how posting "I'm single, who is interested?" here really works for anyone, but I know that getting out and meeting people with similar interest can often be fruitful.

Your a hotty, and having a line a the door doesn't make you a slut.